Comments on: Themes for 2010 that I will not call resolutions http://humanbeingblog.com/2009/12/themes-for-2010-that-i-will-not-call-resolutions/ Thu, 15 Jul 2010 02:55:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: gavintiegirl http://humanbeingblog.com/2009/12/themes-for-2010-that-i-will-not-call-resolutions/comment-page-1/#comment-1400 gavintiegirl Wed, 30 Dec 2009 19:10:21 +0000 http://humanbeingblog.com/?p=2485#comment-1400 I love your 2010 themes. I also liked your 2009 themes. I am turning 40 this year and have lots of things I want to do that I am constantly holding myself back from...small everyday things like going to the beach more (I live in Florida for gawd sakes) and going to the bookstore on a Saturday alone and staying there for hours. Just because I am a wife and mother doesn't mean I have to restrict my life for others. This is just nonsense. But this is my life. The funny thing is; no one is restricting me, but me. My husband is very cool about everything and anything I want to do alone. He hates the beach and the bookstore. This is not about him; it's about me not doing what I want to and then resenting the wrong person. I also want to have more fun in 2010....lots more. I am a freaking goofball. I want to be done with anything that sucks. I love that. No more sucking in 2010. Happy New Year to you!!!! .-= gavintiegirl´s last blog ..<a href="http://gavintiegirl.wordpress.com/2009/11/29/thanksgiving-sunset/" rel="nofollow">Thanksgiving Sunset</a> =-. I love your 2010 themes. I also liked your 2009 themes. I am turning 40 this year and have lots of things I want to do that I am constantly holding myself back from…small everyday things like going to the beach more (I live in Florida for gawd sakes) and going to the bookstore on a Saturday alone and staying there for hours. Just because I am a wife and mother doesn’t mean I have to restrict my life for others. This is just nonsense. But this is my life. The funny thing is; no one is restricting me, but me. My husband is very cool about everything and anything I want to do alone. He hates the beach and the bookstore. This is not about him; it’s about me not doing what I want to and then resenting the wrong person.

I also want to have more fun in 2010….lots more. I am a freaking goofball. I want to be done with anything that sucks. I love that. No more sucking in 2010.

Happy New Year to you!!!!
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]]> By: Nicola http://humanbeingblog.com/2009/12/themes-for-2010-that-i-will-not-call-resolutions/comment-page-1/#comment-1373 Nicola Tue, 29 Dec 2009 19:09:27 +0000 http://humanbeingblog.com/?p=2485#comment-1373 I love your word of 2010! .-= Nicola´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.thewholeself.co.uk/2009/12/best-laugh.html" rel="nofollow">the best laugh</a> =-. I love your word of 2010!
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]]> By: lynn http://humanbeingblog.com/2009/12/themes-for-2010-that-i-will-not-call-resolutions/comment-page-1/#comment-1372 lynn Tue, 29 Dec 2009 17:00:57 +0000 http://humanbeingblog.com/?p=2485#comment-1372 @Nicola and @Derende: So I have this thing about paying attention to something when I hear it 3 times. And this idea about choosing a word has now come up 3 times in -- er -- so many words. My word of the year 2010 is Unstuckifying. @Nicola and @Derende:

So I have this thing about paying attention to something when I hear it 3 times. And this idea about choosing a word has now come up 3 times in — er — so many words.

My word of the year 2010 is Unstuckifying.

]]> By: Derende http://humanbeingblog.com/2009/12/themes-for-2010-that-i-will-not-call-resolutions/comment-page-1/#comment-1369 Derende Tue, 29 Dec 2009 06:29:42 +0000 http://humanbeingblog.com/?p=2485#comment-1369 My MO is to choose one thing per year - it makes it easier to focus on. The most successful of these was 2003, where I decided to live in less fear. It worked great, since if I was nervous about something, I'd stop and ask, "what are you afraid of?", and more often than not, I couldn't think of a reason. May be time to bring that one back. I have three days to think up a new one that's better! My MO is to choose one thing per year – it makes it easier to focus on. The most successful of these was 2003, where I decided to live in less fear. It worked great, since if I was nervous about something, I’d stop and ask, “what are you afraid of?”, and more often than not, I couldn’t think of a reason.

May be time to bring that one back. I have three days to think up a new one that’s better!

]]> By: Nicola http://humanbeingblog.com/2009/12/themes-for-2010-that-i-will-not-call-resolutions/comment-page-1/#comment-1368 Nicola Tue, 29 Dec 2009 06:22:19 +0000 http://humanbeingblog.com/?p=2485#comment-1368 I love your themes. I don't do resolutions either. I've written goals at various times which these days I call intentions. And they are much more powerful. I like power words too which is an idea I came across this year. Choose a word for your year that encompasses what you want to achieve - I'm going to do that this time. .-= Nicola´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.thewholeself.co.uk/2009/12/best-stationery.html" rel="nofollow">the best stationery</a> =-. I love your themes. I don’t do resolutions either. I’ve written goals at various times which these days I call intentions. And they are much more powerful.

I like power words too which is an idea I came across this year. Choose a word for your year that encompasses what you want to achieve – I’m going to do that this time.
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